Did you know that the wedding cake is a symbol of fertility? Or that wedding guests used to break pieces of bread over the couple's heads to bring them good luck? There are a variety of wedding cake traditions you can include in your wedding. Learn more about the history of the wedding cake in our gallery of traditions below:
Traditions: The Wedding Cake
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Friday, May 28, 2010
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
First Dance - Choosing Your Song
Selecting the perfect song for your first dance as Mr. and Mrs. can seem like a daunting task. Do you have a favorite song as a couple? Something that comes on the radio and you both seem to turn up? Maybe it's not the best slow song, but maybe there is a remake of it by a different artist or it can be slowed down or maybe it is perfect the way it is!
Pick a song that is going to speak right to your heart just like he/she speaks right to your heart.
Pick a song that is going to speak right to your heart just like he/she speaks right to your heart.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Eco Friendly Alternatives to Throwing Rice
Traditionally most items thrown at the bride and groom represent fertility and abundance. However, some ceremony sites do not allow rice to be thrown because it is hard to clean up or some believe it may be harmful to our feathered bird friends.
A few eco-friendly alternatives to throwing rice or confetti are bird Seed, sunflower seeds, and dried leaves. Other trendy tosses include rose petals or other blooms, releasing butterflies, and environmentally-friendly and self-cleaning, biodegradable ecofetti. Any of these items can be placed and in a decorative mesh bag and hung on the guests’ chairs at the ceremony, they can double up as wedding decorations.
The bridal industry offers other items such as blowing bubbles or waving lit sparklers at the departing couple. Just don't ask us what those symbolize.
A few eco-friendly alternatives to throwing rice or confetti are bird Seed, sunflower seeds, and dried leaves. Other trendy tosses include rose petals or other blooms, releasing butterflies, and environmentally-friendly and self-cleaning, biodegradable ecofetti. Any of these items can be placed and in a decorative mesh bag and hung on the guests’ chairs at the ceremony, they can double up as wedding decorations.
The bridal industry offers other items such as blowing bubbles or waving lit sparklers at the departing couple. Just don't ask us what those symbolize.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Winter Weddings
Planning a winter wedding can be fun! Even though we are in the Carolinas, that doesn’t mean your wedding can’t be a winter wonderland. The mountains of North Carolina usually have some snow this time of year and this year is exceptionally snowy!
Location is most important and while getting married with snowflakes falling on your eyelashes sounds oh so romantic, it will be COLD! Keep your guests in mind as they probably won’t want to spend an hour outside in the freezing cold.
Be careful when choosing a location. At this time of year, some churches and other venues are decorated for the season and you may or may not like the decorations. If you can make your own decorations, look for pine tree branches with pinecones and decorate them with white lights. Pull out your Christmas ornaments and put them in glass vases and use them as centerpieces. I’m sure you can find plenty of other decorations in your own stash that could do double duty as wedding decorations.
For the menu at this time of year, you can usually save money as well. Soup and hot dips are popular for appetizers during an afternoon wedding. And, afternoon weddings are better this time of year since it gets dark early. Beverages can include white hot chocolate, hot toddies and white Russians.
There are so many options when you decide to get married in the winter. That’s why, even though it’s cold outside, winter weddings are hot!
Location is most important and while getting married with snowflakes falling on your eyelashes sounds oh so romantic, it will be COLD! Keep your guests in mind as they probably won’t want to spend an hour outside in the freezing cold.
Be careful when choosing a location. At this time of year, some churches and other venues are decorated for the season and you may or may not like the decorations. If you can make your own decorations, look for pine tree branches with pinecones and decorate them with white lights. Pull out your Christmas ornaments and put them in glass vases and use them as centerpieces. I’m sure you can find plenty of other decorations in your own stash that could do double duty as wedding decorations.
For the menu at this time of year, you can usually save money as well. Soup and hot dips are popular for appetizers during an afternoon wedding. And, afternoon weddings are better this time of year since it gets dark early. Beverages can include white hot chocolate, hot toddies and white Russians.
There are so many options when you decide to get married in the winter. That’s why, even though it’s cold outside, winter weddings are hot!
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Brides Against Breast Cancer - Charity Gown Sale
This event provide brides-to-be with an opportunity to find their dream gown (at an incredible savings) while making wishes and dreams come true for women and men who are losing their fight against breast cancer.
Join Weddings Made Simple for Brides Against Breast Cancer's gown sale in:
Greenville/Spartanburg, SC – January 15th-16th
Raleigh, NC - February 5th-7th
Charlotte, NC - February 26th-28th
To find out more go to Brides Against Breast Cancer.
Join Weddings Made Simple for Brides Against Breast Cancer's gown sale in:
Greenville/Spartanburg, SC – January 15th-16th
Raleigh, NC - February 5th-7th
Charlotte, NC - February 26th-28th
To find out more go to Brides Against Breast Cancer.
Monday, November 30, 2009
Couple Changes Wedding Plans for Football Game
Wedding Plans for High School Football Game
After reading this article I can attest that, especially in the South, you have to carefully select your wedding date around football season!
"In the world of college football, it's almost required that brides-to-be consult the game schedule before setting a date. Parents will boycott the nuptials of their own children if the big day falls on the same day as a match. In Norman, Okla., it's a running joke that no one will show up at your wedding if it's on a University of Oklahoma game day. At Clemson University in South Carolina, brides eagerly await the release of the school's football schedule because only after games are announced can the university open up its conference center for weddings. Ceremonies and receptions can only happen when the team is out of town, because on game day the area is overrun by Tiger fans..."
I went to a wedding in Tennessee and the Vols were playing on the same day. The couple’s parents had the game playing on a large screen projector behind the dance floor. The first dance was in the way of all of the spectators watching the game. The bride came up to me and said that all she wanted was for her guest to have fun, so I recommended that they turn off the game and turn up the music. Now days with technology, football fans can keep up with the game without having to necessarily watch it.
Rather than running into this problem, be sure to check the football schedule before you decide to say “I do!”
After reading this article I can attest that, especially in the South, you have to carefully select your wedding date around football season!
"In the world of college football, it's almost required that brides-to-be consult the game schedule before setting a date. Parents will boycott the nuptials of their own children if the big day falls on the same day as a match. In Norman, Okla., it's a running joke that no one will show up at your wedding if it's on a University of Oklahoma game day. At Clemson University in South Carolina, brides eagerly await the release of the school's football schedule because only after games are announced can the university open up its conference center for weddings. Ceremonies and receptions can only happen when the team is out of town, because on game day the area is overrun by Tiger fans..."
I went to a wedding in Tennessee and the Vols were playing on the same day. The couple’s parents had the game playing on a large screen projector behind the dance floor. The first dance was in the way of all of the spectators watching the game. The bride came up to me and said that all she wanted was for her guest to have fun, so I recommended that they turn off the game and turn up the music. Now days with technology, football fans can keep up with the game without having to necessarily watch it.
Rather than running into this problem, be sure to check the football schedule before you decide to say “I do!”
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
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Weddings Made Simple’s Stimulus Plan
We know that selecting the right wedding coordinator is important to you and planning a wedding can be stressful. Weddings Made Simple takes these worries off your shoulders and lets you enjoy your special day by making the process…simple! Relax and allow Weddings Made Simple to be part of your wedding day.
10% OFF on any one Á La Carte item
Á La Carte items include Vendor Contacts and Contract Review, Reception or Ceremony Design and Coordination, Creating and Understanding Your Budget and more!
15% OFF Basic Wedding Planning Package
We will handle most of the planning and coordinating for you!
Don’t forget to ask about our free Honeymoon Planning!
Contact us for more information on any of our services and packages.
Let’s start planning!
Weddings Made Simple
North Carolina – 919.376.7857
South Carolina – 864.508.1554
info@myweddingmadesimple.com
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Dance Lessons for the big day?
If any of you watch The Wedding episode of The Office a few weeks ago, you saw how popular dancing at a wedding has become. However, it seems that it is dancing during the CEREMONY that has become popular, not dancing at the reception. The spoof of dancing at the ceremony on The Office was actually taken from the YouTube video that hit the internet earlier this year. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-94JhLEiN0)
I think it's actually a pretty cool idea and would let you set the tone for the wedding ceremony and reception. You could personalize the dance to fit the personality of you and your hubby to be by picking a song and style of dance. It doesn't have to be modern dance; it can be a waltz, the cha cha or even a little salsa dancing. Doesn't that sound fun?
What if you, your man or another member of the bridal party has two left feet? You can always take dance lessons if you are self-conscious, or fake the dance if you aren't. It's your wedding day and nobody is going to judge your dancing abilities. If you watch the video, those guys/girls wouldn't win So You Think You Can Dance, but they were having fun and that is what matters.
Have fun with it! This is just another way to make your wedding special and unique!
I think it's actually a pretty cool idea and would let you set the tone for the wedding ceremony and reception. You could personalize the dance to fit the personality of you and your hubby to be by picking a song and style of dance. It doesn't have to be modern dance; it can be a waltz, the cha cha or even a little salsa dancing. Doesn't that sound fun?
What if you, your man or another member of the bridal party has two left feet? You can always take dance lessons if you are self-conscious, or fake the dance if you aren't. It's your wedding day and nobody is going to judge your dancing abilities. If you watch the video, those guys/girls wouldn't win So You Think You Can Dance, but they were having fun and that is what matters.
Have fun with it! This is just another way to make your wedding special and unique!
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Wedding Thank You Card
A simple hand written “thank you” is appropriate for all wedding gifts. Traditionally the gifts are presented to the bride and she should write the thank you note. Even though the bride has the social responsibility for writing the note, the groom can help by addressing, stuffing and stamping the envelopes!
Thank you notes should be sent out as soon as possible after a gift is received. For gifts and parties given before the wedding, it is expected that you send thank you notes within two weeks. Gifts received after the wedding are allotted a more generous time span, but should be sent out no later than a month after the event. You will want to let your guest know what their presence at your event meant to you, or how much you wished they could have attended, and of course thank them for the "gift".
When a person does not receive a thank you note they may start to wonder that you did not like their gift or you did not receive it.
Thursday, August 20, 2009
What are South Carolina's Marriage License Requirements?
- Marriage licenses are good in any South Carolina county; regardless of at which courthouse it was obtained.
- Both the bride and groom must apply together at a South Carolina County Courthouse
- There is no blood test or physical exam required.
- Marriage license fess vary from county to county
- A Driver’s License and Social Security number are required; a birth certificate is not.
- You do not have to be a resident of South Carolina to marry in South Carolina
- The marriage license does not expire
- You can marry immediately after receiving your license
- Once you have applied for your marriage license, there is a 24 hour waiting period before you can pick up your license
For more information contact the local county courthouse.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
What are North Carolina's marriage license requirements?
- Marriage licenses are good in any North Carolina county; regardless of at which courthouse it was obtained. Both the bride and groom must be present at the time of applying.
- Marriage license fee of $50 ($20.00 of which will be used for domestic violence programs).
- No blood test or physical exam is required.
- Verification of your Social Security number (original card, W-2 or pay stub, or a statement from the Social Security Office stating your Social Security number.)
- You do not have to be a previous or current resident of North Carolina to obtain a marriage license that is valid statewide.
- Applicants 21 or older need to bring their certified birth certificate and Driver’s License, state ID or passport
- Applicants 18-21 must bring their certified birth certificate and Driver’s License
- The marriage license is valid for sixty (60) days from the date of issuance
- There is no waiting period for receiving your license; you will receive your license immediately.
- There is an additional $10.00 fee to obtain a certified copy of the marriage certificate.
For more information contact your local county courthouse.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Choosing Vintage Engagement Rings
Over the past few years, there has been a remarkable surge of interest in vintage jewelry. This is particularly true where diamond jewelry is concerned, particularly vintage engagement rings.
Today’s jewelry designs tend to be very “clean” without a lot of distracting settings or metal work, vintage jewelers however wanted to frame the stones with beautiful and delicate work, and many rings had large stones with highly ornamental settings.
A couple that is considering becoming engaged will often spend time browsing through jewelry shops or sites and discuss the appeal of certain cuts, stones and designs. They should also make a point of visiting an estate or vintage shop to also get an idea of what the older styles have to offer as well.
A look at the popular looks along the “red carpet” at many celebrity events over the course of the past few years will illustrate the appeal of vintage jewelry. Long strands or simply cut diamonds or hefty rings full of ornate stones and settings appear very often. Vintage engagement rings will have that sort of “sturdiness” about them, but they can also be found in much more delicate designs as well – it just takes some shopping around to find the right ring.
What if you cannot find what you are looking for? Well, many modern jewelry designers are taking their cues from vintage engagement rings and happily offer customers new pieces that have many of the more appealing elements of the older ones. There will be engagement rings with diamonds cut in the simpler styles or set in gold and silver filigree or even in large platinum settings as well.
Like any other part of wedding planning, it is always recommended that a bride to be keep a journal or folder full of clippings and images that inspire her or appeal to her. This can help out a good deal if a couple decides to have their wedding jewelry custom designed based on vintage looks.
Today’s jewelry designs tend to be very “clean” without a lot of distracting settings or metal work, vintage jewelers however wanted to frame the stones with beautiful and delicate work, and many rings had large stones with highly ornamental settings.
A couple that is considering becoming engaged will often spend time browsing through jewelry shops or sites and discuss the appeal of certain cuts, stones and designs. They should also make a point of visiting an estate or vintage shop to also get an idea of what the older styles have to offer as well.
A look at the popular looks along the “red carpet” at many celebrity events over the course of the past few years will illustrate the appeal of vintage jewelry. Long strands or simply cut diamonds or hefty rings full of ornate stones and settings appear very often. Vintage engagement rings will have that sort of “sturdiness” about them, but they can also be found in much more delicate designs as well – it just takes some shopping around to find the right ring.
What if you cannot find what you are looking for? Well, many modern jewelry designers are taking their cues from vintage engagement rings and happily offer customers new pieces that have many of the more appealing elements of the older ones. There will be engagement rings with diamonds cut in the simpler styles or set in gold and silver filigree or even in large platinum settings as well.
Like any other part of wedding planning, it is always recommended that a bride to be keep a journal or folder full of clippings and images that inspire her or appeal to her. This can help out a good deal if a couple decides to have their wedding jewelry custom designed based on vintage looks.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Modern vs. Traditional Bride
Are you a modern bride or a traditional bride?
Traditional brides are married in white or champagne colored gowns.
Modern brides choose yellow, peach or even blue or red!
Traditional brides cover their arms with sleeves or long gloves.
Modern brides elect to wear sleeveless, spaghetti strap or one-shoulder dress.
Traditional brides like to describe themselves as classical,
Modern brides may be described as unique,
Traditional brides serve traditional wedding cake that is usually two or three (or more!) tiers.
Modern brides have a cupcake tower or dessert table.
The Traditional Wedding Ceremony takes place in a church/place of worship.
The Modern bride elects to get married on a beach, in a park or in their own back yard!
A traditional bride will use the standard vows that are recited in most wedding ceremonies.
A modern bride may write her own vows.
Traditional wedding invitations include the invitation, outer and inner envelope, reception card and response card.
A modern wedding invitation can have online RSVP’s, they can include directions and maps, come in pocket forms or use different colors of ink.
After reviewing these options, you may find that you part traditional and part modern. No matter what type of bride you are, the wedding should reflect your personality and your ideas of the perfect wedding. Weddings Made Simple would love to help you decide!
Traditional brides are married in white or champagne colored gowns.
Modern brides choose yellow, peach or even blue or red!
Traditional brides cover their arms with sleeves or long gloves.
Modern brides elect to wear sleeveless, spaghetti strap or one-shoulder dress.
Traditional brides like to describe themselves as classical,
Modern brides may be described as unique,
Traditional brides serve traditional wedding cake that is usually two or three (or more!) tiers.
Modern brides have a cupcake tower or dessert table.
The Traditional Wedding Ceremony takes place in a church/place of worship.
The Modern bride elects to get married on a beach, in a park or in their own back yard!
A traditional bride will use the standard vows that are recited in most wedding ceremonies.
A modern bride may write her own vows.
Traditional wedding invitations include the invitation, outer and inner envelope, reception card and response card.
A modern wedding invitation can have online RSVP’s, they can include directions and maps, come in pocket forms or use different colors of ink.
After reviewing these options, you may find that you part traditional and part modern. No matter what type of bride you are, the wedding should reflect your personality and your ideas of the perfect wedding. Weddings Made Simple would love to help you decide!
Monday, June 15, 2009
10 Tips for a Green Wedding
1. Invitations
Use recycled paper for your invitations, you can save paper and a lot of trees; considering how many pieces get mailed out (Save the Dates, envelopes, directions, return envelopes, etc.). Consider using electronic communication for invitations and announcements, updates, and guest responses.
2. Wedding Ring
Purchase a simple ring that will take fewer resources and energy to produce or consider purchasing a pre-owned one.
3. Planning Tips
Cut the guest list! Fewer people means less people traveling to your wedding, less people to provide food and drinks for, less venue space is required, which means less decorations, and pretty much less everything.
4. Location
Select a venue that is outdoors like a garden or a beach which has natural beauty and does not require much decorating. Also, selecting a venue that has natural light requires less electricity!
5. Wedding Party
Limit the size of your wedding party to save on expense and gifts for the wedding party. Rather than having a large wedding party allow important guest to have a role at your wedding, for example they can read at your ceremony, sing at your event, give a speech, etc. Make sure your wedding party car pools from the hotel to the reception; after all they are all going to the same site.
6. Favors and Centerpieces
Make a donation to a charity in honor of your guest. Most of them don’t want a picture frame with the bride and groom’s name on it. Or you can give your guest seeds to plant a tree or flowers.
7. Photography
It’s much more cost effective and green friendly to use digital cameras. Share your photos digitally on a wedding website or blog so your guest can download the photos they want.
8. Catering
Go local! Hire a catering company that uses local ingredients and uses seasonal fruits and vegetables.
9. Flowers & Decorations
Use flowers that are in season. When you use flowers that are out of season, they have to be transported and cared for which requires extra resources that in-season flowers don’t require. Or use potted plants and give those away to your guest as favors or plant them in your garden after your event.
Use recycled paper for your invitations, you can save paper and a lot of trees; considering how many pieces get mailed out (Save the Dates, envelopes, directions, return envelopes, etc.). Consider using electronic communication for invitations and announcements, updates, and guest responses.
2. Wedding Ring
Purchase a simple ring that will take fewer resources and energy to produce or consider purchasing a pre-owned one.
3. Planning Tips
Cut the guest list! Fewer people means less people traveling to your wedding, less people to provide food and drinks for, less venue space is required, which means less decorations, and pretty much less everything.
4. Location
Select a venue that is outdoors like a garden or a beach which has natural beauty and does not require much decorating. Also, selecting a venue that has natural light requires less electricity!
5. Wedding Party
Limit the size of your wedding party to save on expense and gifts for the wedding party. Rather than having a large wedding party allow important guest to have a role at your wedding, for example they can read at your ceremony, sing at your event, give a speech, etc. Make sure your wedding party car pools from the hotel to the reception; after all they are all going to the same site.
6. Favors and Centerpieces
Make a donation to a charity in honor of your guest. Most of them don’t want a picture frame with the bride and groom’s name on it. Or you can give your guest seeds to plant a tree or flowers.
7. Photography
It’s much more cost effective and green friendly to use digital cameras. Share your photos digitally on a wedding website or blog so your guest can download the photos they want.
8. Catering
Go local! Hire a catering company that uses local ingredients and uses seasonal fruits and vegetables.
9. Flowers & Decorations
Use flowers that are in season. When you use flowers that are out of season, they have to be transported and cared for which requires extra resources that in-season flowers don’t require. Or use potted plants and give those away to your guest as favors or plant them in your garden after your event.
10. Recycle
Buy recycled and recyclable products. Make recycling easy for your guest and event staff by placing bins in convenient locations around the facility. Recycle paper, cardboard, glass, aluminum cans, plastics, bottles, etc. Save packing material you receive and reuse for shipping.
Monday, May 11, 2009
Beach Weddings
During a recent trip to the beach, I thought about how beautiful beach weddings are…especially at this time of year. The carefree atmosphere, wind in your hair, maybe even barefoot? J
So many brides think a dream beach wedding has to be held on some far away island that you can only reach by air. There are so many beautiful beaches right here in the Carolinas that are perfect for weddings!
Having a beach wedding in the spring or early summer can be amazing and unforgettable. Of course, you don’t want to have the wedding too late in the summer because we all know how hot and humid it can get here in the Carolinas.
So, before you plan that get away vacation that half of your friends and family can’t even afford to attend, look into your local beaches to see what they have to offer! I can tell you from personal experience that there is A LOT out there! Contact us for more information. info@myweddingmadesimple.com
So many brides think a dream beach wedding has to be held on some far away island that you can only reach by air. There are so many beautiful beaches right here in the Carolinas that are perfect for weddings!
Having a beach wedding in the spring or early summer can be amazing and unforgettable. Of course, you don’t want to have the wedding too late in the summer because we all know how hot and humid it can get here in the Carolinas.
So, before you plan that get away vacation that half of your friends and family can’t even afford to attend, look into your local beaches to see what they have to offer! I can tell you from personal experience that there is A LOT out there! Contact us for more information. info@myweddingmadesimple.com
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Wedding (Spring) Fever
The weather in Greenville, SC is suppose to be absolutely beautiful this weekend, why not get out and cure your Spring Fever? You've been cooped up all winter long and are bogged down with wedding planning, work and what ever else life throws at you, take a break from it all!
So leave work early, go for walk in the park, dine alfresco, reconnect with your loved one and enjoy each other's company.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Spring is here!
Spring has arrived! Well, maybe not officially, but with the weather we have had lately it sure feels like it! And, since spring is a time for new beginnings, – what better time to plan a wedding. There are so many objects and events around to inspire you: the flowers, the green trees, the new spring colors in fashion….
If you want more ideas – go to your local farmers market and check out the flowers; take in a spring bridal show; take a walk in a park (they can make a great location for a wedding); or go to a craft show.
Starting the planning is half the battle. Once you get a basis for the wedding like the colors or the location, a theme may begin to emerge. If you are having a spring wedding, you may be thinking bright colors, daisies and the outdoors. Do keep in mind that you will need to have a back up plan. While spring is a beautiful time of year, it also brings rain.
One of the hottest spring trends for this year, believe it or not, is black and white, for that sophisticated look. Some more trends include short wedding dresses, dresses lined with red, pink brides maids dresses and sandals. They all sound perfect for that beach wedding, don’t they?
If you don’t like to follow trends, make your own rules. Add your own personal touches that show everyone how creative and stylish you are! If there is any one place that you can show off your flair and personal style…it’s your wedding.
If you want more ideas – go to your local farmers market and check out the flowers; take in a spring bridal show; take a walk in a park (they can make a great location for a wedding); or go to a craft show.
Starting the planning is half the battle. Once you get a basis for the wedding like the colors or the location, a theme may begin to emerge. If you are having a spring wedding, you may be thinking bright colors, daisies and the outdoors. Do keep in mind that you will need to have a back up plan. While spring is a beautiful time of year, it also brings rain.
One of the hottest spring trends for this year, believe it or not, is black and white, for that sophisticated look. Some more trends include short wedding dresses, dresses lined with red, pink brides maids dresses and sandals. They all sound perfect for that beach wedding, don’t they?
If you don’t like to follow trends, make your own rules. Add your own personal touches that show everyone how creative and stylish you are! If there is any one place that you can show off your flair and personal style…it’s your wedding.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Selecting a Wedding Dress
For the most part, the selection of your wedding date and time and the selection of your ceremony/reception site sets into motion a series of events that impacts your gown style decision. Consider the formality of your wedding first when selecting a style.
Will your wedding be a 2:00 in the afternoon on a summer day with small garden reception afterwards? Or will it be an evening affair with a sit down, four course meal? The reception starting time will give guests an indication of what to expect for the food functions and formality of the wedding. Generally, the more formal the wedding, the more formal the bride’s attire. And keep the season of your wedding in mind, since some fabrics may be too heavy or too light for certain times of the year.
In addition, some churches and synagogues have dress code restrictions on the proper attire for bride and groom. You may want to ask your place of worship for any guidelines. Remember you can always accessorize with a cute jacket or sash to make sure you follow the dress code for your venue, and then take it off to dance the night away at your reception.
Will your wedding be a 2:00 in the afternoon on a summer day with small garden reception afterwards? Or will it be an evening affair with a sit down, four course meal? The reception starting time will give guests an indication of what to expect for the food functions and formality of the wedding. Generally, the more formal the wedding, the more formal the bride’s attire. And keep the season of your wedding in mind, since some fabrics may be too heavy or too light for certain times of the year.
In addition, some churches and synagogues have dress code restrictions on the proper attire for bride and groom. You may want to ask your place of worship for any guidelines. Remember you can always accessorize with a cute jacket or sash to make sure you follow the dress code for your venue, and then take it off to dance the night away at your reception.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Making Memories
The Making Memories Organization is holding a Brides Against Breast Cancer event in Raleigh the last weekend of February. This event developed from a desire to grant the last wish of some terminally ill breast cancer patients. Businesses and former brides can donate wedding dresses. These dresses are brought together at a central location and then brides to be come and buy them at a reduced price. The money goes to the foundation.
Besides the event in Raleigh, brides can turn their shower into a Pink Envelope Event. You send out pink donation envelopes with your shower invitation. Then, you collect the donations at your shower and send them off to Making Memories who in turn will feature your shower on the website. How easy is that?
If you donate your time or a gown, or purchase a gown at one of these events (they are held all over the U.S.) you will be helping to bring someone’s wish true. Some example of these wishes are: a family trip to Disney World, one woman asked for a new carpet for her home and one even asked for a new computer so she could search for information on her disease and any possible cures.
I know that when we are planning our wedding we have so many other things to worry about. But most brides are buying a dress, so why not do it at one of these events? If you are on a budget, you may find the dress of your dreams at a low price. Most brides will also have a shower and sending the donation envelopes with your shower invitations is a breeze! Unfortunately, I didn’t know about the Making Memories and Brides Against Breast Cancer partnership when I was planning my wedding. Instead I am going to volunteer my time to the event. If you are interested in helping out in any way, you can visit the Brides Against Breast Cancer website at http://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/, or you can visit http://www.makingmemories.org/ to see the reasons behind the events and learn how you can help.
Besides the event in Raleigh, brides can turn their shower into a Pink Envelope Event. You send out pink donation envelopes with your shower invitation. Then, you collect the donations at your shower and send them off to Making Memories who in turn will feature your shower on the website. How easy is that?
If you donate your time or a gown, or purchase a gown at one of these events (they are held all over the U.S.) you will be helping to bring someone’s wish true. Some example of these wishes are: a family trip to Disney World, one woman asked for a new carpet for her home and one even asked for a new computer so she could search for information on her disease and any possible cures.
I know that when we are planning our wedding we have so many other things to worry about. But most brides are buying a dress, so why not do it at one of these events? If you are on a budget, you may find the dress of your dreams at a low price. Most brides will also have a shower and sending the donation envelopes with your shower invitations is a breeze! Unfortunately, I didn’t know about the Making Memories and Brides Against Breast Cancer partnership when I was planning my wedding. Instead I am going to volunteer my time to the event. If you are interested in helping out in any way, you can visit the Brides Against Breast Cancer website at http://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/, or you can visit http://www.makingmemories.org/ to see the reasons behind the events and learn how you can help.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Seasonal Wedding Flowers
What colors do you want?
Most couples see the color of the flowers before they decide on the type of flowers they want to use throughout their wedding day. It is important to decide on the colors and shades of flowers you would like to use. Think about what colors you want to enhance or play down at the ceremony and reception site.
What's the style of your wedding?
Certain colors and blooms can set the tone of formality for the wedding. For the most part bright colors with dynamic shapes have more of an informal feel, while muted monochromatic varieties appear more formal.
How will you stay within your budget?
Choosing flowers that will be in peak bloom during your wedding date is a great way to stay within your budget.
Popular flowers for the season of your wedding
Spring
Alstroemeria
Anemone
Assorted Lilies
Bells of Ireland
Boronia
Candytuft
Carnation
Daffodil
Daisy
Delphinium
Eucalyptus
Freesia
Godetia
Heather
Iris
Jasmine
Leptospermum
Lisianthus
Orchid
Peony
Protea
Ranunculus
Rose
Scabiosa
Snapdragons
Stephanotis
Sunflower
Sweetpea
Tulip
Veronica
Wax Flower
Trachelium
Tuberose
Veronica
Wax Flower
Yarrow
Summer
Alstroemeria
Assorted Lilies
Asters
Azalea
Bells of Ireland
Boronia
Candytuft
Carnation
Delphinium
Eucalyptus
English Lavender
Eucalyptus
Gladiola
Godetia
Hydrangea
Iris
Jasmine
Lily of the Valley
Lisianthus
Love in the Mist
Orchid
Peony
Phlox
Protea
Ranunculus
Rose
Scabiosa
Snapdragons
Statis
Stephanotis
Sunflower
Sweetpea
Wax Flower
Yarrow
Fall
Alstroemeria
Assorted Lilies
Asters
Bells of Ireland
Chinese Lanterns
Candytuft
Carnation
Delphinium
English Lavender
Eucalyptus
Gladiola
Godetia
Hydrangea
Iris
Jasmine
Lisianthus
Love in the Mist
Orchid
Ornamental Peppers
Peony
Phlox
Protea
Ranunculus
Rose
Scabiosa
Stephanotis
Statis
Sunflower
Sweetpea
Trachelium
Tuberose
Veronica
Winter
Alstroemeria
Assorted Lilies
Amaryllis
Bird of Paradise
Carnation
Crysanthemum
Dafoldil
Delphinium
Eucalyptus
Evergreen Boughs
Freesia
Gentian Rose
Heather
Holly
Iris
Jasmine
Leptospermum
Lisianthus
Orchid
Poinsettia
Protea
Rose
Scabiosa
Stephanotis
Sweetpea
Tulip
Wax Flower
Most couples see the color of the flowers before they decide on the type of flowers they want to use throughout their wedding day. It is important to decide on the colors and shades of flowers you would like to use. Think about what colors you want to enhance or play down at the ceremony and reception site.
What's the style of your wedding?
Certain colors and blooms can set the tone of formality for the wedding. For the most part bright colors with dynamic shapes have more of an informal feel, while muted monochromatic varieties appear more formal.
How will you stay within your budget?
Choosing flowers that will be in peak bloom during your wedding date is a great way to stay within your budget.
Popular flowers for the season of your wedding
Spring
Alstroemeria
Anemone
Assorted Lilies
Bells of Ireland
Boronia
Candytuft
Carnation
Daffodil
Daisy
Delphinium
Eucalyptus
Freesia
Godetia
Heather
Iris
Jasmine
Leptospermum
Lisianthus
Orchid
Peony
Protea
Ranunculus
Rose
Scabiosa
Snapdragons
Stephanotis
Sunflower
Sweetpea
Tulip
Veronica
Wax Flower
Trachelium
Tuberose
Veronica
Wax Flower
Yarrow
Summer
Alstroemeria
Assorted Lilies
Asters
Azalea
Bells of Ireland
Boronia
Candytuft
Carnation
Delphinium
Eucalyptus
English Lavender
Eucalyptus
Gladiola
Godetia
Hydrangea
Iris
Jasmine
Lily of the Valley
Lisianthus
Love in the Mist
Orchid
Peony
Phlox
Protea
Ranunculus
Rose
Scabiosa
Snapdragons
Statis
Stephanotis
Sunflower
Sweetpea
Wax Flower
Yarrow
Fall
Alstroemeria
Assorted Lilies
Asters
Bells of Ireland
Chinese Lanterns
Candytuft
Carnation
Delphinium
English Lavender
Eucalyptus
Gladiola
Godetia
Hydrangea
Iris
Jasmine
Lisianthus
Love in the Mist
Orchid
Ornamental Peppers
Peony
Phlox
Protea
Ranunculus
Rose
Scabiosa
Stephanotis
Statis
Sunflower
Sweetpea
Trachelium
Tuberose
Veronica
Winter
Alstroemeria
Assorted Lilies
Amaryllis
Bird of Paradise
Carnation
Crysanthemum
Dafoldil
Delphinium
Eucalyptus
Evergreen Boughs
Freesia
Gentian Rose
Heather
Holly
Iris
Jasmine
Leptospermum
Lisianthus
Orchid
Poinsettia
Protea
Rose
Scabiosa
Stephanotis
Sweetpea
Tulip
Wax Flower
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
The Groom
Will your groom be involved in the wedding planning? A better question may be does he WANT to be involved? He LOVES you, but sometimes wedding planning just isn’t what a guy wants to be doing. You don’t want to force him to take part, but if he truly wants to help, listen to his ideas. He may have some good ones and you can at least give him the option.
If he chooses not to help, don’t think that means he doesn’t love you, he may just want you to make the decisions because he knows how important this special day is for you. However, more and more grooms are taking a bigger interest in the decision making for the wedding. This may cause problems if you don’t handle it delicately. You want a string quartet and he wants AC/DC; you want a nice sit down dinner and he wants a Bar-B-Q. Who gets to choose? Most of the time it is the bride is the one who has been dreaming of her wedding since she was a little girl.
But you have to respect your groom’s feelings as well. Since you are ready to live your lives together, you need to be able to COMPROMISE. Don’t let this be a source for arguments or problems. It is a special day for BOTH of you. Keep that in mind.
If he chooses not to help, don’t think that means he doesn’t love you, he may just want you to make the decisions because he knows how important this special day is for you. However, more and more grooms are taking a bigger interest in the decision making for the wedding. This may cause problems if you don’t handle it delicately. You want a string quartet and he wants AC/DC; you want a nice sit down dinner and he wants a Bar-B-Q. Who gets to choose? Most of the time it is the bride is the one who has been dreaming of her wedding since she was a little girl.
But you have to respect your groom’s feelings as well. Since you are ready to live your lives together, you need to be able to COMPROMISE. Don’t let this be a source for arguments or problems. It is a special day for BOTH of you. Keep that in mind.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Finding Wedding Vendors
Festivals are a great resource to meet local vendors, find and experience local music, taste great food, and to gather wedding favor ideas created by local arts and crafts vendors. If you've decided on what type of wedding theme you are going to have, and if you plan ahead, you can find great seasonal buys at these festivals.
Here are a few festivals coming to a town square near you!
South Carolina
ChristmasVille
December 04 - December 07, 2008
Rock Hill, South Carolina
http://www.christmasvillerockhill.com/
Craftsmen's Christmas Classic Arts & Crafts Fest
November 09, 2007 - November 11, 2008
N Charleston, South Carolina
http://www.craftshow.com/
African American Plantation Days
November 01 - November 29, 2008
Charleston, South Carolina
http://www.middletonplace.org/
Art in the Park
November 08 - November 09, 2008
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
http://www.wacg.org/
Craftsmen's Christmas Classic Arts & Crafts Fest
November 14 - November 16, 2008
Columbia, South Carolina
http://www.craftshow.com/
Charleston's Holiday Market
November 21 - November 23, 2008
N. Charleston, South Carolina
www.HolidayMarket.com/
Hunt Meadows Elem Christmas Bazaar
November 22, 2008
Easley, South Carolina
South Carolina Bluegrass Festival
November 27 - November 29, 2008
Myrtle Beach , South Carolina
http://www.aandabluegrass.com/
North Carolina
Carolina Renaissance Festival and Artisans Marketplace
October 04 - November 16, 2008
Huntersville, North Carolina
http://www.royalfaires.com/
Holly Day Fair
November 06 - November 09, 2008
Fayetteville, North Carolina
www.jlfay.org/?nd=hollyday07
Holiday Market
November 07 - November 09, 2008
Greensboro, North Carolina
http://www.holidaymarket.com/
Southern Christmas Show
November 13 - November 23, 2008
Charlotte, North Carolina
http://www.southernchristmasshow.com/
Fine Craft and Design Show
November 28 - November 30, 2008
Raleigh, North Carolina
http://www.carolinadesignercraftsmen.com/
Here are a few festivals coming to a town square near you!
South Carolina
ChristmasVille
December 04 - December 07, 2008
Rock Hill, South Carolina
http://www.christmasvillerockhill.com/
Craftsmen's Christmas Classic Arts & Crafts Fest
November 09, 2007 - November 11, 2008
N Charleston, South Carolina
http://www.craftshow.com/
African American Plantation Days
November 01 - November 29, 2008
Charleston, South Carolina
http://www.middletonplace.org/
Art in the Park
November 08 - November 09, 2008
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
http://www.wacg.org/
Craftsmen's Christmas Classic Arts & Crafts Fest
November 14 - November 16, 2008
Columbia, South Carolina
http://www.craftshow.com/
Charleston's Holiday Market
November 21 - November 23, 2008
N. Charleston, South Carolina
www.HolidayMarket.com/
Hunt Meadows Elem Christmas Bazaar
November 22, 2008
Easley, South Carolina
South Carolina Bluegrass Festival
November 27 - November 29, 2008
Myrtle Beach , South Carolina
http://www.aandabluegrass.com/
North Carolina
Carolina Renaissance Festival and Artisans Marketplace
October 04 - November 16, 2008
Huntersville, North Carolina
http://www.royalfaires.com/
Holly Day Fair
November 06 - November 09, 2008
Fayetteville, North Carolina
www.jlfay.org/?nd=hollyday07
Holiday Market
November 07 - November 09, 2008
Greensboro, North Carolina
http://www.holidaymarket.com/
Southern Christmas Show
November 13 - November 23, 2008
Charlotte, North Carolina
http://www.southernchristmasshow.com/
Fine Craft and Design Show
November 28 - November 30, 2008
Raleigh, North Carolina
http://www.carolinadesignercraftsmen.com/
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Picking Bridesmaids
This is probably one of the toughest decisions for a lot of brides. You don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but if you have 10 close friends, that would make for a pretty expensive wedding party! here are some of the costs that you need to think about: if your bridesmaids don't live in the same town as you, you may want to pay for their lodging and travel expenses; you have to get flowers for each of them; it is customary to buy the bridesmaids a Thank You gift; you may want to pay to get their hair done (unless you trust them to their own. That could turn out to be very scary in some cases); you may want to get their nails done.
Also, keep in mind that your bridesmaids will most likely be the ones organizing your shower, bridal luncheon, and bachelorette party. The maid/matron of honor will have the most responsibilities, of course. She should be someone very close to you since she will be the one who has to deal with your emotions and she will be responsible for getting you where you need, on time, and looking your best.
Most brides are so excited about the wedding, they don't think about what it is going to cost the members of the wedding party. Keep that in mind also when you are selecting your wedding party. the most important thing is that you want all of your bridesmaids to look their best because you will have pictures from the ceremony that are going to last a lifetime!
Also, keep in mind that your bridesmaids will most likely be the ones organizing your shower, bridal luncheon, and bachelorette party. The maid/matron of honor will have the most responsibilities, of course. She should be someone very close to you since she will be the one who has to deal with your emotions and she will be responsible for getting you where you need, on time, and looking your best.
Most brides are so excited about the wedding, they don't think about what it is going to cost the members of the wedding party. Keep that in mind also when you are selecting your wedding party. the most important thing is that you want all of your bridesmaids to look their best because you will have pictures from the ceremony that are going to last a lifetime!
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Selecting Your Wedding Party
This is a very important part of your wedding: Who to choose and what are their duties?
Maid of Honor – The bride will usually first pick from a sister near her age or their most loyal friend. The Maid of Honor is the ring leader and emotional support who plans the shower and bachelorette party and is responsible for keeping the bridesmaids up to date on what they should be doing for the bride and her wedding.
Best Man – A brother or a best friend who is responsible. Takes care of bachelor events and offers support to the groom. He is charge of keeping track of the wedding rings and is responsible for giving the first toast at the reception.
Bridesmaids – Sisters or great friends who will stand by your side no matter what type of bride you will become (i.e. bridezilla). Choose girl friends that have the time and the financial means to be in and help you with your wedding. Don’t forget your future sister-n-law.
Groomsmen – Brothers, cousins, or best buds. Groomsmen may help with seating guests, help the best man throw a bachelor party, and are gentleman to the bridesmaids.
Flower Girl – Choose your adorable little sister, niece, cousin between the age of three and six. She scatters flower petals as she walks down the aisle. Be prepared for any type of disruption while she walks down the aisle.
Ring Bearer – Usually between the age of three and seven and is in charge of caring the wedding rings, or copies, on a pillow during the processional. The ring bearer should attend the rehearsal so they feel comfortable walking down the aisle.
Maid of Honor – The bride will usually first pick from a sister near her age or their most loyal friend. The Maid of Honor is the ring leader and emotional support who plans the shower and bachelorette party and is responsible for keeping the bridesmaids up to date on what they should be doing for the bride and her wedding.
Best Man – A brother or a best friend who is responsible. Takes care of bachelor events and offers support to the groom. He is charge of keeping track of the wedding rings and is responsible for giving the first toast at the reception.
Bridesmaids – Sisters or great friends who will stand by your side no matter what type of bride you will become (i.e. bridezilla). Choose girl friends that have the time and the financial means to be in and help you with your wedding. Don’t forget your future sister-n-law.
Groomsmen – Brothers, cousins, or best buds. Groomsmen may help with seating guests, help the best man throw a bachelor party, and are gentleman to the bridesmaids.
Flower Girl – Choose your adorable little sister, niece, cousin between the age of three and six. She scatters flower petals as she walks down the aisle. Be prepared for any type of disruption while she walks down the aisle.
Ring Bearer – Usually between the age of three and seven and is in charge of caring the wedding rings, or copies, on a pillow during the processional. The ring bearer should attend the rehearsal so they feel comfortable walking down the aisle.
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
South Carolina & North Carolina Wedding Consultant
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We provide full service wedding planning and consulting. Packages are available from day of coordination to complete planning and production services where our experienced, friendly, expert staff will oversee every aspect of your special day.
We want every bride to be able to enjoy their special day without worry, all the while feeling comfortable in every part of the decision making process. Whether that is helping to save the environment or to save the brides budget, we have it covered.
Weddings Made Simple provides service for the entire South & North Carolina areas. We are also available for Destination Weddings.
We provide full service wedding planning and consulting. Packages are available from day of coordination to complete planning and production services where our experienced, friendly, expert staff will oversee every aspect of your special day.
We want every bride to be able to enjoy their special day without worry, all the while feeling comfortable in every part of the decision making process. Whether that is helping to save the environment or to save the brides budget, we have it covered.
Weddings Made Simple provides service for the entire South & North Carolina areas. We are also available for Destination Weddings.
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Choosing a Wedding Ceremony and Reception Site
Where do you want your wedding and reception to take place?
When trying to decide where do hold your ceremony and reception there are a few things to consider: budget, weather, or if you plan on staying close to home or having a destination wedding. We hope you'll find something that will fit into your budget and the overall theme and feel of your wedding.
First, are you planning on having a religious or civil ceremony? Most traditional religious ceremonies are held in the bride's hometown. Requirements for religious ceremonies can vary widely from one denomination to another. Pre-marriage counseling is required by some religions. Find out when the ceremony can be scheduled, because some religions and places of worship require that you have your wedding ceremony within a specific time frame. Many places of worship have reception halls that you can rent out for a nominal fee which may include the use of tables, chairs, dinnerware, and linens which can help you save money. With a civil ceremony, legal requirements vary from state to state, but usually a judge or other officiant performs the ceremony.
Know what you are getting when you reserve a ceremony and reception site. Do you have to pay a clean up fee; do you have to give a deposit; can the site accommodate all of your guest; does the place have a liquor license; do they have your wedding date available; are there rules regarding candles, flowers, or hanging up decorations; what kind or equipment can be used at the site and what needs to be rented? Remember to include the setup and tear down time.
If you are having an at home wedding contact your city or town hall to ask if there are any noise and traffic ordinances, fire codes, and tent permits.
Sources to find a great site
-Local visitor / tourist bureau
-Local parks department
-Local Chamber of Commerce
-Ask friends and family
-Surf the web
When trying to decide where do hold your ceremony and reception there are a few things to consider: budget, weather, or if you plan on staying close to home or having a destination wedding. We hope you'll find something that will fit into your budget and the overall theme and feel of your wedding.
First, are you planning on having a religious or civil ceremony? Most traditional religious ceremonies are held in the bride's hometown. Requirements for religious ceremonies can vary widely from one denomination to another. Pre-marriage counseling is required by some religions. Find out when the ceremony can be scheduled, because some religions and places of worship require that you have your wedding ceremony within a specific time frame. Many places of worship have reception halls that you can rent out for a nominal fee which may include the use of tables, chairs, dinnerware, and linens which can help you save money. With a civil ceremony, legal requirements vary from state to state, but usually a judge or other officiant performs the ceremony.
Know what you are getting when you reserve a ceremony and reception site. Do you have to pay a clean up fee; do you have to give a deposit; can the site accommodate all of your guest; does the place have a liquor license; do they have your wedding date available; are there rules regarding candles, flowers, or hanging up decorations; what kind or equipment can be used at the site and what needs to be rented? Remember to include the setup and tear down time.
If you are having an at home wedding contact your city or town hall to ask if there are any noise and traffic ordinances, fire codes, and tent permits.
Sources to find a great site
-Local visitor / tourist bureau
-Local parks department
-Local Chamber of Commerce
-Ask friends and family
-Surf the web
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Wedding Planning: Can I afford a wedding planner?
A wedding planner is a professional consultant who acts on the bride and groom’s behalf to get the best deals to save you money and to save you time. They can provide affordable alternatives that fit any budget.
Wedding planners offer many planning packages that can fit your needs and budget. You can decide to use a wedding planner to plan your wedding from beginning to end or to help answer specific questions from etiquette to wording initiations. They charge hourly rates, rates based on the percentage of the total wedding cost, or one flat rate.
Wedding planners can provide the knowledge, guidance, and creativity to bring your dreams to a reality by finding items that best suit your vision.
Wedding planners offer many planning packages that can fit your needs and budget. You can decide to use a wedding planner to plan your wedding from beginning to end or to help answer specific questions from etiquette to wording initiations. They charge hourly rates, rates based on the percentage of the total wedding cost, or one flat rate.
Wedding planners can provide the knowledge, guidance, and creativity to bring your dreams to a reality by finding items that best suit your vision.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Bridal Beauty before the Wedding Day
The secret to wedding day radiance is planning and applying your beauty regimen now. Six months to a year prior to the wedding date, is the time to experiment with makeup and beauty products, color and hair cuts, artificial nails, and consulting with your physician for other pressing issues like skin problems or even stress. Implement a workout routine that will help you get those fabulous arms and shoulders for that strapless dress, to help curve stress, and to improve overall health.
Here are a few things that helped me: I began a workout routine by joining the local gym and went in and out of taking the different classes they offered until I found one or two classes that I absolutely loved (cycling and weight lifting). I also made a few changes to my diet. I made sure to drink 6-8 glasses of water a day, cut back on my sweet intake, and decided to start taking a multi-vitamin. With the changes to my weekly workout and to my diet I was able to see a change in a few weeks. The exercise gave me more energy and stamina, and the water and vitamins seemed to help clear up my skin.
I experimented with a few over the counter beauty products for my hair and teeth. I used whitening strips which really seemed to work great on my teeth, and I also applied a deep conditioning treatment for my hair that made it silky and shiny. I looked through magazines and talked with friends and family to get makeup tips and ideas and then bought and tested the different colors and products until I found what I wanted to use for the day of the wedding. If you are using a hair and makeup professional be sure to have a run through before the wedding day.
Give yourself the time to experiment and explore different beauty options. By beginning your beauty regimen now you can plan on looking gorgeous and radiant on your wedding day.
Here are a few things that helped me: I began a workout routine by joining the local gym and went in and out of taking the different classes they offered until I found one or two classes that I absolutely loved (cycling and weight lifting). I also made a few changes to my diet. I made sure to drink 6-8 glasses of water a day, cut back on my sweet intake, and decided to start taking a multi-vitamin. With the changes to my weekly workout and to my diet I was able to see a change in a few weeks. The exercise gave me more energy and stamina, and the water and vitamins seemed to help clear up my skin.
I experimented with a few over the counter beauty products for my hair and teeth. I used whitening strips which really seemed to work great on my teeth, and I also applied a deep conditioning treatment for my hair that made it silky and shiny. I looked through magazines and talked with friends and family to get makeup tips and ideas and then bought and tested the different colors and products until I found what I wanted to use for the day of the wedding. If you are using a hair and makeup professional be sure to have a run through before the wedding day.
Give yourself the time to experiment and explore different beauty options. By beginning your beauty regimen now you can plan on looking gorgeous and radiant on your wedding day.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Wedding Planning: The #1 Most Important Thing To Remember
From engagement bliss to budget woes, planning a wedding is like riding a roller coaster; there are euphoric peaks and cheerless dips. The stress of planning a wedding can sometimes leave you second guessing yourself or your mate.
Through the wedding process remember the reasons you decided to say “I do”. You are about to marry your best friend and the love of your life because they truly make you happy. Remember to say I love you and bite your tongue once or twice because you are about to begin a journey of a lifetime and your wedding day will be one of the many beautiful memories you will be creating together.
Through the wedding process remember the reasons you decided to say “I do”. You are about to marry your best friend and the love of your life because they truly make you happy. Remember to say I love you and bite your tongue once or twice because you are about to begin a journey of a lifetime and your wedding day will be one of the many beautiful memories you will be creating together.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Wedding Planning: Getting Organized
What should you do next? Start now and get organized!
Organization is the key to a stress free wedding. By keeping all of your wedding ideas, contracts, vendor information, and timelines in a portable format will reduce the amount of stress on your wedding day, I promise.
It is very simple, go to your local office supply store today and purchase a binder, accordion filer, or some manageable filing system. You can also purchase tab dividers or labels to organize your filing system and pouches to store business cards or receipts.
Include these sections and you can add more as you go:
-To Do Calendar / Checklist
-Wedding Planning Budget List
-Wedding Attire
-Bridal Shop Information
-Color Swatches
-Ceremony (Including clergy, music, transportation)
-Vendors & Contracts
-Order of Ceremony
-Reception (music, caterer, cake, seating arrangements, rentals)
-Vendors & Contracts
-Timeline of Reception (first dance, cutting of the cake, etc.)
-Flowers / Decorations
-Invitations, Stationery, Wedding Program
-Gifts
-Parties (engagement party, rehearsal dinner, bride’s maid luncheon, etc.)
-Honeymoon
There are so many choices of fun stationery, ribbons, stickers and colors that you can use to accessorize your “organizer”. Which ever type of organizer you choose to use the goal is to stay organized and find a system that works best for you.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
A List vs. C List Guests
When I first started planning my wedding, I had no idea where to begin. I knew where I wanted to get married – on the beach. But since it was sort of going to be a destination wedding, I knew we couldn’t invite EVERYONE. How many people should we invite? How do you shorten the list? I have known people who make “A” lists and “B” lists and then their “C” list, but I just couldn’t sit down and say “well that person just isn’t as important as this person but they are more important than that person…”, etc.etc. So, I used this rule of thumb…if I haven’t talked to you in 2 years and you aren’t family, then you aren’t invited.
I am in no way trying to sound uncaring, but when you have a budget, you have to stick to it. Of course, there will always be those relatives that you have to invite no matter what. The ones who used to pinch your cheeks when you were little or the one who always bought you the most outrageous Christmas presents (remember the pink bunny outfit from the Christmas Story?).
The point of your wedding day is that it is YOUR WEDDING DAY. What will make you happy without breaking the bank and also without causing hurt feelings? You may decide that you want to invite everyone you know or have ever known. On your wedding day you want to be surrounded by everyone in your family so they can all share in this beautiful day. If that is the case, you better start getting that budget in order.
I am in no way trying to sound uncaring, but when you have a budget, you have to stick to it. Of course, there will always be those relatives that you have to invite no matter what. The ones who used to pinch your cheeks when you were little or the one who always bought you the most outrageous Christmas presents (remember the pink bunny outfit from the Christmas Story?).
The point of your wedding day is that it is YOUR WEDDING DAY. What will make you happy without breaking the bank and also without causing hurt feelings? You may decide that you want to invite everyone you know or have ever known. On your wedding day you want to be surrounded by everyone in your family so they can all share in this beautiful day. If that is the case, you better start getting that budget in order.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Wedding Planning: The Budget
Most wedding planning publications state that the average cost of weddings is now at $28,000. Wow, that's how much some people pay in college tuition for four years, and the wedding falls on one day! Now that you have an idea of the type of wedding you want, you must find out how your wedding well be funded before you can start the planning process.
Some couples will pay for the wedding themselves or have help from parents or other family members. All parties involved in paying for the wedding need to sit down and talk to see how much each party can contribute to the wedding budget. Traditionally the bride’s family pays for most of the cost, but some family members may want to pick and choose what they pay for. Talk about the things that are important to you in planning your dream wedding. Try to come up with a round about figure on how much everyone can contribute. Try to be prepared for any unexpected cost such as reception site cleaning fees, unexpected guest added to the caterer’s fee, and dress pressing.
Here is a wedding budget planning list to help you get started:
WEDDING BUDGET PLANNING LIST
TO KEEP TRACK OF YOUR EXEPENSE CREATE AN EXPENSE SHEET WITH THE ITEMS BELOW AND INCLUDE THE ESTIMATED COST AND ACTUAL COST OF EACH ITEM.
CEREMONY
Site Fees
Clergy member
Marriage License
Musicians
Flowers, Candles, Decorations
Other
RECEPTION
Food / Caterer
Drinks
Rentals
Cake
Site Fees
Decorations
Accessories, Toasting Glasses,
Cake Knife, etc.
ATTIRE
Bride's Gown/Accessories
Bride's Hair/Nails
Bride's Attendants
Groom's Formal Wear
Groom's Attendants
Flower Girl
Ring Bearer
RINGS
His and her rings
FLOWERS
Ceremony
Bride's Bouquet
Maid of Honor Bouquet
Bridesmaid Bouquets
Corsages
Flower Girl
Grandparent's Flowers
Reception Centerpieces
Cake Table Flowers
MUSIC
Band / DJ
Sound System Rental
PHOTOGRAPHY
Photographer Fee
Videographer Fee
Albums
Additional Prints
STATIONERY
Invitations
Response Cards
Postage
Thank You Notes
Guest Book
Calligraphy
TRANSPORTATION
For Bride & Groom
For Wedding Party
For Guest (Shuttle)
GIFTS
Bridesmaid
Groomsmen
Parents
Guest
PARTIES
Engagement
Shower's
Bridesmaids'
Bachelor's
Rehearsal
Other
HONEYMOON
INSURANCE
WEDDING CONSULTANT
Some couples will pay for the wedding themselves or have help from parents or other family members. All parties involved in paying for the wedding need to sit down and talk to see how much each party can contribute to the wedding budget. Traditionally the bride’s family pays for most of the cost, but some family members may want to pick and choose what they pay for. Talk about the things that are important to you in planning your dream wedding. Try to come up with a round about figure on how much everyone can contribute. Try to be prepared for any unexpected cost such as reception site cleaning fees, unexpected guest added to the caterer’s fee, and dress pressing.
Here is a wedding budget planning list to help you get started:
WEDDING BUDGET PLANNING LIST
TO KEEP TRACK OF YOUR EXEPENSE CREATE AN EXPENSE SHEET WITH THE ITEMS BELOW AND INCLUDE THE ESTIMATED COST AND ACTUAL COST OF EACH ITEM.
CEREMONY
Site Fees
Clergy member
Marriage License
Musicians
Flowers, Candles, Decorations
Other
RECEPTION
Food / Caterer
Drinks
Rentals
Cake
Site Fees
Decorations
Accessories, Toasting Glasses,
Cake Knife, etc.
ATTIRE
Bride's Gown/Accessories
Bride's Hair/Nails
Bride's Attendants
Groom's Formal Wear
Groom's Attendants
Flower Girl
Ring Bearer
RINGS
His and her rings
FLOWERS
Ceremony
Bride's Bouquet
Maid of Honor Bouquet
Bridesmaid Bouquets
Corsages
Flower Girl
Grandparent's Flowers
Reception Centerpieces
Cake Table Flowers
MUSIC
Band / DJ
Sound System Rental
PHOTOGRAPHY
Photographer Fee
Videographer Fee
Albums
Additional Prints
STATIONERY
Invitations
Response Cards
Postage
Thank You Notes
Guest Book
Calligraphy
TRANSPORTATION
For Bride & Groom
For Wedding Party
For Guest (Shuttle)
GIFTS
Bridesmaid
Groomsmen
Parents
Guest
PARTIES
Engagement
Shower's
Bridesmaids'
Bachelor's
Rehearsal
Other
HONEYMOON
INSURANCE
WEDDING CONSULTANT
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Wedding Planning: A Wedding to Remember
In the past two and a half years I have been to nine weddings, including my own. I’ve been to a wedding in the middle of the Smoky Mountains where the bride and groom said their vows in front of an amazing view of the mountains. A beautiful wedding, that took place in the courtyard of a 1799 Georgian Home.
There have been amazing weddings, absolutely entertaining weddings, uncomfortable wedding receptions; heart felt ceremonies, and simple affairs. Every time I go to a wedding I leave thinking “I loved this” about the wedding or “I would I have never have done that.”
What do you want people to remember about your wedding?
-The location of your wedding ceremony and reception.
-Special touches like writing your own vows.
-The music and entertainment.
-How beautiful the bride looks.
-The theme of the wedding with decorations and all.
-The great tasting food.
-Or any other unique details that are important to you.
Once you determine what elements are needed to plan your "wedding to remember", it then becomes easier to focus on what type of budget and resources you will need to pull your wedding off.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Wedding Planning: Where to Begin?
Congratulations on your engagement! Now what?
It is important to understand your priorities (and those of your fiancé).
What kind of setting do you envision yourself getting married in? Are you the Cinderella Bride, the Outdoorsy Bride, the Get Married at the Beach Bride, or the Las Vegas Chapel Bride? Formal, semiformal, religious, themed, intimate, outdoors, destination weddings; there are so many choices and you don't have to pick just one, you can incorporate many different styles or even let it evolve through the planning process.
How many guests do you want to invite and how much can you afford?
One of the hardest things to figure out is how many people to invite and who. There are the Bride's Friends, the Groom's Friends, the Bride's Family, the Groom's Family, the Bride's Co-workers, the Groom's Co-workers, etc. you get the point.
Coming up with and initial budget and a list of who can help pay for some or all of the wedding expenses will help in determining how many guest you can invite.
Be sure to sit down with your significant other to talk about the things that are important to you, and important to include in the wedding. Whether it is family traditions, religious traditions, including kids from a previous marriage in the wedding ceremony, avoid battling over it for the next few months by letting each other know what your priorities are. Wedding planning can be a bit stressful at times so make it easier on yourself.
This is part of a NEW weekly series that will be published each Wednesday.
It is important to understand your priorities (and those of your fiancé).
What kind of setting do you envision yourself getting married in? Are you the Cinderella Bride, the Outdoorsy Bride, the Get Married at the Beach Bride, or the Las Vegas Chapel Bride? Formal, semiformal, religious, themed, intimate, outdoors, destination weddings; there are so many choices and you don't have to pick just one, you can incorporate many different styles or even let it evolve through the planning process.
How many guests do you want to invite and how much can you afford?
One of the hardest things to figure out is how many people to invite and who. There are the Bride's Friends, the Groom's Friends, the Bride's Family, the Groom's Family, the Bride's Co-workers, the Groom's Co-workers, etc. you get the point.
Coming up with and initial budget and a list of who can help pay for some or all of the wedding expenses will help in determining how many guest you can invite.
Be sure to sit down with your significant other to talk about the things that are important to you, and important to include in the wedding. Whether it is family traditions, religious traditions, including kids from a previous marriage in the wedding ceremony, avoid battling over it for the next few months by letting each other know what your priorities are. Wedding planning can be a bit stressful at times so make it easier on yourself.
This is part of a NEW weekly series that will be published each Wednesday.
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